Sure they’re always there to support you however your girlfriends might just be steering you in the wrong direction when it comes to getting your ex back.
They mean well and have all the right intentions but they may be hurting your chances of successfully getting your man back.
Going through a bad breakup with the one you still love is one of the most difficult things a girl can go through. Being that you’re still pretty much in love with him means only one thing – you’re going to try to get him back.
Your girlfriends have always been there to hear you out. They’ve given you shoulders to cry on. They’ve even shared their super secret chocolate stashes with you to help you get through this crisis in your life.
They’re now offering you the best advice they could possible give on how to get him back. Unfortunately, their advice is based on the rules girls play by and they aren’t going to be all that effective at getting him back. If you really want to get him back, you’re going to have to play the game by his rules – to some degree.
Playing a Girl’s Game using the Boy’s Rule Book
Here are some tips that you should consider if you want to get him back. Your girlfriends aren’t going to tell you any of this.
(1) Never let him see you coming. Your number one priority at the moment is to get him back. You’ll need to dedicate yourself to the task at hand. But, you have to do it in a way that doesn’t look like you’re trying to get him back. Don’t show your hands because he’ll always be expecting you to make that move.
(2) Show the world you’ve moved on. This includes your girlfriends. Smile. Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have everyone convinced that you truly have moved on.
(3) Let him know you’ve got game. As you’re trying to show everyone that you’ve moved on, you need to invest in making yourself over from the inside out. Become the stronger, more independent woman you’ve always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own skin. Once you’ve accomplished all this – then you let him see you coming and watch the fireworks as he takes in the new you.
Why is this so Effective?
After the initial honeymoon phase in your relationship, you’ll often begin to take each other for granted. The more you learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover. You’re presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to unlock. It’s a curious mystery that he is going to be powerless to resist – especially if there ever were genuine feelings on his part.
And your girlfriends? They’ll love you regardless of whether you take their advice or not. They just want you to be happy.