It’s a common misconception that women leave their men because the love isn’t there anymore. Believe it or not, in most cases this simply isn’t true.
They don’t pull away because you’re not attractive to them anymore either.
Most of the time, it isn’t about anything that you did that pushed her away. Surprisingly (or not), there’s an old country song that actually got it right – sort of. It’s not what you did. It’s all the things that you didn’t do.
Please don’t get me wrong on this. I’m not saying that everything is your fault.
I’m a firm believer that it takes two to tango. In her case, she never spoke up and told you what she needed from you. But how many times have you told her what you need her to do for you?
While the country song may be about a few decades old by now, there is wisdom in those old lyrics. If you’re trying to make your relationship work and put a little bit of love back into it, then you need to remember all the things he forgot.
Tell Her That You Love Her
Don’t take it for granted that she knows this.
Tell her. Show her.
You need to shout it out from the rooftops, but make sure that she knows, without a doubt, that you only have eyes for her.
Make Time For Her
However, don’t make the mistake of making her feel like it’s a sacrifice. Every once in a while you should genuinely want to do things together.
Having a date night on a weekly basis can be a small thing, but when it’s done right, it can mean a whole lot for the love and romance in your relationship. It’s one night a week that lets her know that she’s still the woman you love.
Listen To What She Has To Say
This is a tough one.
Men and women often reside in different worlds when it comes to communication. She begins to speak and at times your eyes just glaze over with this faraway look. She notices this and it hurts.
You’re going to have to really listen, like the man in this Klondike commercial.
Doing this will really impress her and make her feel like she is that much important to you.
Let Her Know She Still Rocks Your World
No matter how many times she dismisses it, she secretly loves to hear you tell her how beautiful she is.
She wants to know that she still turns you on and you’re not just turning to her because she’s available. She wants to know that your fires are still burning bright for her just as much as you want to know that she still digs you too.
You don’t have to go to charm school. You don’t have to get a second job, or step outside of your league or even lose 100 pounds to get her to love you again.
All it takes it to let her know that you’re still the man she fell in love with when you first met.