No relationship is perfect.
As an example, take a look at some of the most high profile celebrity couples and you’ll see that sometimes even though they seem to have it all – the money, the looks, the fame and maybe even the perfect story – things don’t always work out.
If things fall apart for these people, do normal people like you and me who don’t have near the fairy tale budgets and the picture perfect smiles stand a chance?
The truth is that us mere mortals of the world stand as much of a chance as those with the big budgets who can afford to buy their girls a little bit of everything.
The reason is simple. Most girls aren’t the proverbial material girls no matter how great of a show they put on.
While diamonds may be a girls best friend (and they won’t turn them down if offered), what a girl really wants is to feel like she is the queen of YOUR world and not just an afterthought.
The following steps may not sound like much but they will make a world of difference to the girl who is currently the queen of your heart.
Kiss Her Hellos and Goodbyes – No Matter What
Life can get busy and downright stressful at times.
It’s easy to overlook the details of what’s going on at home when you have thousands of different demands coming your way on the job or you’re worried about how to make ends meet next month.
No matter what your worries may be, there should be no worry greater in your life than to greet your girl hello and leaving her with something to remember you by throughout the day.
The perfect solution?
It doesn’t cost anything and it speaks volumes.
The Small Things Add Up
You don’t always have to do it big for her to feel special. She will still feel the same about you no matter if you throw her a lavish party for her birthday or if you cook her dinner for two.
The small things can sometimes be ignored and forgotten while you’re busy trying to make big statements.
A common example is how some guys go all out on Valentines Day to show their love while they just go through the motions for the rest of the year.
Don’t let your girl get away because you were busy looking for something so monumental to show your love that you overlook a thousand small ways you could have told her or showed her just how you feel.
Give Her a Night Off Each Week
There is nothing the average busy wife and mother wants more than a night off each week.
Come home and take over. Do dinner. Feed the kids. Bathe the kids. Tuck them in. Draw her a bath and clean up in the kitchen while she relaxes in the tub.
This will feel like a little piece of paradise to her and also show her just how devoted to her you really are. A gesture like this is worth more than any diamond necklace to a busy wife and mother who just wants to feel loved and appreciated.
Send Her Silly Little Love Notes
This might seem a bit silly to you but to her these are the things that she will read a thousand times over the years.
She will treasure them. She’ll take them out and read them whenever things get a bit rough between you both.
If you continue to send them, she’ll often revisit them to see how things have changed and how much they’ve stayed the same between the two of you.
As you can see, you don’t have to spend ridiculous amounts of money to show her that she really is the queen of your heart. More importantly, these small gestures make her feel like she is the queen of your world too.